Fetish ball/Swingers party

[tonytheskin]

Would it be easier for you if the person being collared were a woman? For people outside of the lifestyle that seems to be easier for them to take.

Man or woman doesn't matter....its still a grown person wearing a collar. That is all.

[Riff Raff]

[quote][Quote:
Originally Posted by redneck_reaper
Would it be easier for you if the person being collared were a woman? For people outside of the lifestyle that seems to be easier for them to take.

Man or woman doesn't matter....its still a grown person wearing a collar. That is all.
/QUOTE]

Isn't a wedding ring just a collar worn around the finger? Some people are hang up on the stigma of wearing a collar because they assiate it with a dog collar when in fact it has many meanings.

Such as:
A collar is something which goes around the neck of a person, animal, or thing (such as a bottle).
Specifically, collar may mean:

• Collar (clothing), the part of a garment that fastens around or frames the neck.
• Collar (animal), a strap for an animal's neck to which a leash or harness may be attached.
• Collar (BDSM), a device of any material placed around the neck of the submissive partner in BDSM.
• Collar (jewelry), an ornament for the neck, especially a close-fitting necklace popular in the Edwardian period and sporadically thereafter, or a livery collar worn around the neck and shoulders as a mark of office.
• Cervical collar is a supporting device used by medicine in cases of trauma or weakness of the neck spine
• Collar (finance), a combination of an equal number of call and put options at slightly different exercise prices.
• Collars is also used metonymically (and usually in a derogatory manner) to refer to members of the clergy.
• Collars are a mechanical piece in a gearbox which engages the gears of the driveshaft onto the layshaft of the gearbox.
• Collar can also mean to arrest or charge a perpetrator with a crime.

If you take the BDSM definition, which isn't all there is to it, btw, it would seem to be another piece of jewelry or dress up clothes. And it is, but when used in a ceremony, it shows a subs love and decication to thier Master or Mistress, and alot of times it is in addition to a wedding ceremony. If your wife asked to to wear a green shirt on Tuesdays to show her that you love her, wouldn't you? Same thing.

[Riff Raff]

BTW, will you guys be at the MonsterBash, I look forward to meeting you?

[redneck_reaper]

My Dom and I plan to be there....please keep in mind that at 8 months pregnant i might not be the nicest person in the word but please feel free to come up and introduce yourself.


I have to ask.....you know alot about bdsm and seem to be defending it so what is the deal? are your "friends" really friends?

[Luciferica F.D.]

BTW, will you guys be at the MonsterBash, I look forward to meeting you?

We will be there too, look forward to meeting you!...We will be in the baby blue 1988 S&S and the BLACK 82 Superior Coach with the pull out table..I'm in the blue and my darling "pet" is in the black..

[hearsegod]

Did someone lose these?

i've put up with your shit for four years, it's time to stop.

[redneck_reaper]

omg...please tell me that isn't a photo of you....i don't know if i can look at you the same way again

[Luciferica F.D.]

omg...please tell me that isn't a photo of you....i don't know if i can look at you the same way again

*chuckles*...I can't believe you looked....Pervert.....Only he and I know the truth ..

[redneck_reaper]

its hard not to look

[Luciferica F.D.]

its hard not to look

it wasn't hard at all...

[redneck_reaper]

yeah...i didn't see any paddle marks so i didn't think he would be

[Luciferica F.D.]

yeah...i didn't see any paddle marks so i didn't think he would be

LOL..fair enough

[HearseHaunter]

no, you should kiss MY ass

i've put up with your shit for four years, it's time to stop.

You should have thought about that before you stabbed your best friend in the back and slept with my wife.

Trust me, It ends here and now.
As for "putting up with my shit for four years", I haven't said shit to you. I sat across from you at waffle house and spent several hours with you when Mac blow out his tire. I worked with you when we helped David and Denise move. I have been as nice as I can be to you.
I treated you like a fucking brother. I would have done anything for you. I helped you move twice. I was you chaufer every weekend. You were my best friend. I forgave you when I caught you telling my wife you loved her and you were going behind my back to see her at work. Why? Because I trusted both of you. It wasn't even 3 months later I found out you were fucking her.
And out of those four years, you haven't appoligized once. NOT FUCKING ONCE.
As for not having balls, grow a set and think about it....
She gave away YOUR porn, she talked you into selling YOUR cars, she made you get rid of YOUR Genitorturers dvd's, she's made you take out YOUR facial piercings, she's been claiming it as HER home, HER wedding, HER cars; she hasn't said anything about "ours" it's always hers. Besides you know she's a cheater; she was sleeping with me while seeing Matt, hell she was blowing you while still living with Richard, so you really think she's not gonna do it to you too? But what am I saying, I guess you two deserve each other.
"Eat shit and die" is to good for you, Eat shit and live.






Oh and don't ask me to help you move when you get evicted for the fighting, screaming, and being 3 months behind on rent.

[Luciferica F.D.]

You should have thought about that before you stabbed your best friend in the back and slept with my wife.

Trust me, It ends here and now.
As for "putting up with my shit for four years", I haven't said shit to you. I sat across from you at waffle house and spent several hours with you when Mac blow out his tire. I worked with you when we helped David and Denise move. I have been as nice as I can be to you.
I treated you like a fucking brother. I would have done anything for you. I helped you move twice. I was you chaufer every weekend. You were my best friend. I forgave you when I caught you telling my wife you loved her and you were going behind my back to see her at work. Why? Because I trusted both of you. It wasn't even 3 months later I found out you were fucking her.
And out of those four years, you haven't appoligized once. NOT FUCKING ONCE.
As for not having balls, grow a set and think about it....
She gave away YOUR porn, she talked you into selling YOUR cars, she made you get rid of YOUR Genitorturers dvd's, she's made you take out YOUR facial piercings, she's been claiming it as HER home, HER wedding, HER cars; she hasn't said anything about "ours" it's always hers. Besides you know she's a cheater; she was sleeping with me while seeing Matt, hell she was blowing you while still living with Richard, so you really think she's not gonna do it to you too? But what am I saying, I guess you two deserve each other.
"Eat shit and die" is to good for you, Eat shit and live.






Oh and don't ask me to help you move when you get evicted for the fighting, screaming, and being 3 months behind on rent.

Excuse you..I wasn't sleeping with you, I was being raped by you. And since you werent part of it you don't know what I was doing with Jeff while seeing Richard..and I didn't make him do anything, he chose to, out of love, something that you could never understand, and it is My wedding/home/ect...the same as it is his...we refer to it seperately...We aren't behind, we don't fight, we are actually very happy, which is something I never was with you. Yes, we do deserve each other, you can't even keep Ethel on the road, she's still trying to die and you "love her"...She's a prime version of what you do to something or someone you "love" ...you destroy it...you beat it, and rape all the happiness from it until there is nothing more. Your a peice of shit, you always will be, and WE are happy, while you live with your mommie and daddy...waiting for them to die, you've been feeding off the same lameass bullshit for years, your a sad excuse for a life form. You wouldn't know how to treat a brother, brothers forgive and let go, your wife was a whore, get over it, he fucked her, get over it, you said yourself every woman you've ever had has cheated on you, you claim I did, and whatever, but if they are all cheating on you, thats proof that you can't keep a fucking woman anyway. We will live...happily.

[hearsegod]

she doesn't make me do anything, everything is ours, my hearse is ours, I've discussed more things with her than i've talked to people in my whole life, including my "brother" or whatever you claimed to be. I may have been sorry for the principal of what I did, however I'm not sorry to you anymore, you've treated me like I didn't deserve to breathe or be alive for four years, fuck you. She should have thrown you in jail that night she ran away and you thought you'd killed her, instead of covering your ass. You should be in jail. At least your wife agreed to what we did...You can quit talking to my wife like she'sd your peon, she's not. It is her house, it is her wedding...just as much as it is mine. You would be the last person I'd call, I hate seeing that rat-tail of hair that you have left, much less the creep attached to it. We do live and we do it happy, not like you living with your parents and not being able to be happy unless your starting shit, if it ends, then end it, shut the fuck up. I don't care anymore how I fucked your wife four years ago and wronged you, there is a waiting list of those you've wronged and you will get yours one day, i can wait, i tried to stay away for a long while to be nice, but I don't owe you anything now. The people that are your friends are nothing but shit starters and two-faced people who talk about everyone including you.