This might not be the place to address this, but there are people out there in the world today who do not understand or respect friendship or relationships. I apolagize if this offends or pisses off anyone.
There are some rules for relationships. There are something's that you do and don't do, no matter how innocent they may seem, even in friendship.
1: You do not make "passes", "hit on", or overly flirt with someone else's Significant Other (S/O). If this does happen you owe both parties an apology. If it is a close friend, you owe them a "heart felt" apology.
2a: As a friend, you do not put your hands on someone's S/O. Even if it's a friendly massage, playing with their hair, etc.
2b: Under the same note, a S/O does not take another's hand, rub their shoulders, play with their hair, etc…
Areas that should be considered off limits: hair, face, back of neck, shoulders, back, hands, knees, and definitely chest, stomach, groin, and rear.
3: You do not call up an ex-S/O's or except their invitations to spend the night or a week with them, or catch a lunch, movie or dinner.
4: As a S/O or as a friend, you do not tell someone, unless it is a relative or someone as close as a relative, that you love them. You especially do not tell them you are "In Love" with them, that you want to be with them or that you want to have sexual encounters with them.
5: As a friend, you respect your friend's wishes when it concerns an S/O. If they ask that you don't do something with their S/O, as a friend, respects those wishes.
6: If your S/O or friend has been in a bad relationship, you do not do things that will remind or put that person back in those situations.
7: What goes on between a person and their S/O is between them two. Give your suggestions, your advice, and your comments to that person. You do not jump in a try to fight their fight for them, or try to start a fight yourself. It is between them, you will not make things better or defend their honor; you will just make things worse.
8: Always communicate. That includes explaining yourself and your feelings in a calm manner and most importantly, listening to the other as they explain themselves and their feelings. You might not agree with them but listen until you understand and respect their views.
9: No matter how frustrating or infuriating the situation maybe, do not get angry. Do not sweat the petty things. If you let the little things eat at you, it will destroy your relationship.
10: If your S/O does something for you that you like or approve of, let them know and try to return the favor. Treat each other as you want to be treated. Love and respect one another as the other loves and respects you.
That includes lying or keeping secerts. With lying and secrets, there can be no trust or respect. With no trust or respect, there is no relationship.
There are some rules for relationships. There are something's that you do and don't do, no matter how innocent they may seem, even in friendship.
1: You do not make "passes", "hit on", or overly flirt with someone else's Significant Other (S/O). If this does happen you owe both parties an apology. If it is a close friend, you owe them a "heart felt" apology.
2a: As a friend, you do not put your hands on someone's S/O. Even if it's a friendly massage, playing with their hair, etc.
2b: Under the same note, a S/O does not take another's hand, rub their shoulders, play with their hair, etc…
Areas that should be considered off limits: hair, face, back of neck, shoulders, back, hands, knees, and definitely chest, stomach, groin, and rear.
3: You do not call up an ex-S/O's or except their invitations to spend the night or a week with them, or catch a lunch, movie or dinner.
4: As a S/O or as a friend, you do not tell someone, unless it is a relative or someone as close as a relative, that you love them. You especially do not tell them you are "In Love" with them, that you want to be with them or that you want to have sexual encounters with them.
5: As a friend, you respect your friend's wishes when it concerns an S/O. If they ask that you don't do something with their S/O, as a friend, respects those wishes.
6: If your S/O or friend has been in a bad relationship, you do not do things that will remind or put that person back in those situations.
7: What goes on between a person and their S/O is between them two. Give your suggestions, your advice, and your comments to that person. You do not jump in a try to fight their fight for them, or try to start a fight yourself. It is between them, you will not make things better or defend their honor; you will just make things worse.
8: Always communicate. That includes explaining yourself and your feelings in a calm manner and most importantly, listening to the other as they explain themselves and their feelings. You might not agree with them but listen until you understand and respect their views.
9: No matter how frustrating or infuriating the situation maybe, do not get angry. Do not sweat the petty things. If you let the little things eat at you, it will destroy your relationship.
10: If your S/O does something for you that you like or approve of, let them know and try to return the favor. Treat each other as you want to be treated. Love and respect one another as the other loves and respects you.
That includes lying or keeping secerts. With lying and secrets, there can be no trust or respect. With no trust or respect, there is no relationship.
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