My Curse....

[Custom Coffin Works]

I am cursed by my ability to see into the lies others try to hide from me. My uncanny way of seeing past the bullshit, seeing what they do not want me to see. Putting two and two together then asking them only have them get angered in the situation, angered they have been found out. I get more angry that I know these things without want or desire. It seems so plain as day to me where other are completely oblivious to the facts. It has no warning, no compassion and no mercy at making it known to me. I find out in the worst possible moments.
When they realize that they have been discovered they hate me more for it. I wish I could just turn it off. Funny how I complain about all the ignorant people in the world, when in reality I wish I was one of them. Who is happier?
Sorry, just issues in my life which are quickly coming to a head here.

[Morella]

What I have noticed is that people who lie are usually quick to accuse others of lying to them. These people are very annoying, to me.

-denise

[Custom Coffin Works]

I have found that everybody lies. I even have been caught up in the greatist and worst type at time. It is the fact that someone how has no reason to lie to me still feels she must. I am totally honest with her, our relationship we have must have that. It still happens, and it hurts

[StrayCat]

I dunno if you have read any of my recent posts or not, but I'm right there with ya man. As a matter of fact tonight it came to a heads and one of her closest friend ratted her out. Sometimes you find the good in people. It's just so fucking unfortunate that more often than not you have to wait for them to finnish spewing forth the bullshit before it comes out.

[Highbars]

Stray Cat and CCW I've traveled the road you two seem to be on. It is riddled with bogs, ruts, holes, and anything that might defeat your total ability to be...Stay true to yourself and things will smooth out..The beer is cold.. I'll hand you one on the other side. The only true lie is the one you tell yourself.......

[hotroddwayne]

Speaking of dealing with people who lie to you, i'm taking the '64 Mercury to a huge all-Ford swap meet this weekend to try to sell it. Setup is this afternoon so the entire weekend will be spent in Columbus dealing with "tire kickers" who have no intention of buying a classic car, only pretending with their empty promises. We've all been there... selling an old car sucks. It's better than the alternative though, advertising in those free "auto & RV" books you can pick up anywhere so they can call you, set up a time to see the car, and never even show up or even have the courtesy to call & say they're not coming.

[Custom Coffin Works]

My curse is not only in love but everything else. I see the can of soda my youngest son is tring to sneak off to his room. The way my oldest son parks his car to hide the new dent he got. The way my best friend figgets when she is hiding something from me. Even down to the way the cat walks by after pissing somewhere other than the litter box. It is as if they are speaking to me in a way no other ether see's or hears. To call them on it, and I'm carefull to put it in ways not to be confrontational, is to shuddenly havce a verbal fight start up. "Why do you think that?!?" is what I normally get back. Sometimes I just let it pass without me saying a word. They get away with it for a short time but then realize that they were caught and now dispise me for knowing and not saying anything.
How do I , how can I just stop this. Burying my head in the sand is not me. I can and have made positive differances in peoples lives. It seems the ones closest to me are the stubbornest ones how hurt me the most.

[hotroddwayne]

How do I , how can I just stop this. Burying my head in the sand is not me. I can and have made positive differances in peoples lives. It seems the ones closest to me are the stubbornest ones who hurt me the most.

Dude you CAN'T stop it. Yes everyone lies to some extent, but over the years some people lie so much they start buying into their own web of lies & can't stop doing it. That's how they also get caught, if someone close to you is hiding something that will destroy you, they eventually slip up & get caught in the lie. That's when they get mad as you put it. She's mad because she got caught & broke the trust. She's mad because it's human nature to lash out in a last-ditch attempt to cover the tracks, usually by trying to turn it all around on you in the process. You can't stop it, just accept it for what it is & never forget. That'll be easy because if you've been cheated on... that's what you'll see in the back of your mind anyway from here on out wether you admit it or not. Sorry if i'm jumping to conclusions here about your situation, but reading between the lines of your posts CCW it sure reads like you just had your heart broken.

[Custom Coffin Works]

That'll be easy because if you've been cheated on... that's what you'll see in the back of your mind anyway from here on out wether you admit it or not. Sorry if i'm jumping to conclusions here about your situation, but reading between the lines of your posts CCW it sure reads like you just had your heart broken.

My heart has broken several times. Has she cheated on me? Sorta but not really, it's too complicated to explain. This is like a mentor seeing his student, child, whatever slip up and try to cover it up. I have told her in the past that I will love her no matter what she does with her personal life. It hurts me deeply as if I was taking the pain she is receiving from her poor or quick decisions. I guess a parent effect is going on here. People these days are not raised as we were (I'm 40).
But this is being directed now at just one example and I'm not trying to do that. This thread is about me seeing those hidden things as they were writin in bright neon.

[Morella]

I don't believe that everyone is a liar. My grandparents didn't lie to us, my husband doesn't lie, and I know that I can trust him when he is on the road. Sometimes believe don't believe some of the outrageous things that I have done, but I'm telling the truth. Unfortunately, my daughter is a chronic liar. When she does something wrong, she calls up her father with her bullshit, blaming everything on me. He doesn't believe it, nor do I, and he will call me to get the real story.

Even television commericials annoy me, because they lie, and they put the true story in tiny captions below the screen, where they go by so fast that no one can read them. That's why I normally watch movies. I just have no patience with bullshit. If you ever hear a politician speak, stick your hand out and cover their mouths, and you can see every lie in their eyes. It's sad.

-denise

[Scary Guy]

Yeah... I avoid lying whenever possible, even little white lies. Everyone lies, but I'm so adamant about this that if I catch myself lying for some reason I go "wait that's not right" and then tell things as they are.

I see it when other people do it too as well, and knowledge is power. I like knowing. Calling people out on their bullshit is fun too and then going "why are you mad at me? You're the one who was lying and I have concrete evidence of that fact".

When love and people you care about are thrown into the mix, personally depending on how deeply I feel I'll turn a blind eye and let things slide even though I don't feel right about it. Apparently I'm defective in the head or something because I'm the only one I know who does this, and if I didn't lower my standards on that (among other) point(s) I'd be even more lonely than I am now with even less friends... although I could be happier like that too but it hurts a bit when they're old friends that I've known for a long time.

[Custom Coffin Works]

I see it when other people do it too as well, and knowledge is power. I like knowing. Calling people out on their bullshit is fun too and then going "why are you mad at me? You're the one who was lying and I have concrete evidence of that fact".

When love and people you care about are thrown into the mix, personally depending on how deeply I feel I'll turn a blind eye and let things slide even though I don't feel right about it. Apparently I'm defective in the head or something because I'm the only one I know who does this, and if I didn't lower my standards on that (among other) point(s) I'd be even more lonely than I am now with even less friends... although I could be happier like that too but it hurts a bit when they're old friends that I've known for a long time.

I can not turn a blind eye to it. It only comes back to me in the end. These things I care about effect me and my well being.

I do like the calling them out aspect. But that would make me even a bigger dick to somepeople. Some of them I care about...go figure.

[Custom Coffin Works]

Never mind...problem worked itself out....