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  • Well that was sooner than I thought it would be.

    My stepdad kicked it Sunday morning at 10:16 - was pronounced by hospice at 11:49.

    We had about the most horrible experience with the Roswell Funeral Home ('Dignity' home, owned by SCI). Called a friend of mine at Tom M Wages and she hooked it up for us! It was almost half as much money and a completely pleasant, pain free experience.

    They not only had no issues with me bringing my car, but we geeked out over some of their old cars and the history of mine. Great folks, I highly recommend.

    The details are:

    The viewing is tomorrow from 6-8 and the funeral is Wednesday at noon at the Tom M Wages home in Lawrenceville, followed by a graveside service at Greenlawn in Roswell at 3. We aren't doing an escort, so it's going to be me in my car plus whomever wants to be in a mini procession with me. If you can't make it, I understand - if you can, that'd be cool too. This has been a pretty crazy few days and I am exhausted. Mom called me Friday and I busted ass home to spend the few minutes with him and he teetered on the edge for about 2 days until he finally just gave up the ghost. Never sat and watched someone die before - kind of surreal.

    Horrible start to my vacation that's for sure. I wanted to ride my mountain bike and play golf all week but it has been sitting around watching him fade.

  • #2
    My Condolences

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    • #3
      sorry about your loss, ill find out tomorrow if i can make it out for the funeral

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      • #4
        i hope to see you wednesday

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        • #5
          im so sorry for your loss give my condolences to you and your family

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          • #6
            Ill be there

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            • #7
              Sorry to hear, bro.
              Neener and I send our condolences.

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              • #8
                I'm sorry man,I know the situation first hand. When my grandfather died the whole expierience was surreal. One day he just closedthe door to his truck like he had done a million times before,only this time the simple act broke his arm in half. Rush to the emergency roon to discover he had advanced bone cancer. Less than 2 weeks and it traveled up his spine and he was gone. I was living there at the time, and saw it every day. By the middle of the second week he was in a coma, would wake up every 12 hours or so for about 3 minutes, didnt know who anyone was anymore, including my grandmother.

                I know usually i'm a complete dick about everything, but hospice care (my experience anyway) was great. He was at home with everyone he cared about near him when he took his last breath. It was hard to watch. And to this day I find myelf thinking about that moment every now and then and just trance out in thought. It's not easily if ever forgotten.

                Anyways, I'm with ya, let me know if you need anything that I can help with.

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                • #9
                  Alex and Ryan - thank you guys so much! My family was unbelievably appreciative of you guys coming out and cruising with us. I'm still working off my hangover from last night.

                  Billy - I have to agree completely, hospice was fantastic. They were there constantly, always checking in with mom, they would deliver meds in the middle of the night and when the end was imminent they brought sub-lingual morphine so that he was comfortable. I'm glad he didn't have to have the indignity of having to die in a hospital around strangers.

                  Tom M Wages Funeral Home in Lawrenceville was also incredible. After the horrible experience we had at the Roswell Funeral home, it was nice that someone actually gave a shit about people and treated us fairly.

                  I do have a bunch of cool pics from the last few days that most people wouldn't appreciate, but I know you guys. =)

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                  • #10
                    Thank you so much for the updates Chris. You've been in our thoughts!

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                    • #11
                      Sending thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

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                      • #12
                        Sorry to hear of your loss. I know the feeling as I sat and watched my Dad fade and pass also..

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